"Every time my wife and I would go on vacation, I would say, "Oh no, I still haven't updated our will!", and she would get mad at me for freaking her out just as we were boarding the plane.  This went on for several years of having children and finally we made the jump to get professional assistance and it was so much easier than anticipated.  We can now enjoy our vacations (and our everyday life) knowing our family is in good hands."